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Re: The "this shit pisses me off" thread
Reply #60 - 11/07/16 at 03:02:55
 
I highly suggest you bring these fears up with your wife. The being sent back home stuff. The lack of intimacy depressing you. All of it.

You will both have to make a compromise. Perhaps she needs something to interest her more. Or it might just be that your intimacy has burnt out. Either way you need to let her be aware of your problem and come to a conclusion. Ignoring it and hoping for a quick fix to fall in your lap is not a good strategy.

If you let her know now. Either it can be resolved. Or perhaps you can both move on. If you wait 10 years to move on. You'll be far worse off in regards to finding intimacy. The older you get the rarer it is for most people.

Now none of that is guaranteed. Who knows you might find the closest physical intimacy of your life in your final years. But even with that possibility. Not confronting your wife about your issue is bad for the both of you.

As far as moving back home. Sometimes you have to swallow your pride and take a loss. Then come up with a strategy to get back out there. Think that over. What can you do about this?

With the internet like it is. There are many different ways to make a living. Or at least get supplemental income. You sound like you're into this erotic art. There is a lot of money in creating erotic art. Have you considered seriously trying to create that? Not as a hobby. But as a professional?

Think about what you love in media. Then put a sincere effort into mastering it. Study what others do. Learn more about it. Expand your horizons and figure out new options. Don't just idle there and hope it'll all be okay.

Who knows there might be a whole new world out there for you to explore. New people to meet. New work to do.

Whatever you do. Take care of yourself. I'd talk about the suicidal thoughts here. But a lot of my viewers came to me with suicidal thoughts in the past. I made this video to give my thoughts on the matter. As well as explaining how I handle suicidal thoughts.

I sincerely hope this helps in some manner. Best of luck to you Methid Man.

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Reply #61 - 01/11/17 at 04:24:26
 
Welp, as of today, I am now single...

This was her message to me...

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In the beginning I was in love with you.
In the beginning I was Happy!

As days went to months then to years my happiness and love grew more and more.

Everytime I talk about you my eyes lit up with excitement to tell others of my Wonderful Boyfriend~
Of all the Good and Great things he had done for me and my Family.
Or if someone brought up your name I gleam with joy!
I smiled at the thought of thinking of you.
And can't wait til the Next time I get to see you again~

Our 5 Year mark had came and gone.
You now live with us.
Before then I was happy to have you with us.
With me.
I was happy!

But now...
I am no longer Happy.
No longer Happy on our relationship.
With us.
You.
And Me.

I am not Happy anymore.

You made it clear of having no plans for the future.
Before you moved down.
You mentioned you had a BIG surprise that couldn't be mailed.

I was super happy and excited along with my family as we all thought it was a Ring~
But instead... It was a Picture..
Which I did love and cherish.
But it was abit of a disappointment of getting my hopes up..

I knew it be awhile for us to get on our feet.
For us to get our own place and what not.

But I mentioned multiple times that my room is gonna be Zoey's.
And by now it's supposed to be her's.
She's getting to that age that she can't continue sleeping in Lena's room.
And we were given an option to move in with Tiff and her Boyfriend..
I said yes. You said no.
I mentioned over and over on getting a Trailer or a RV.
You liked the idea.
But again made no plans on the move.
I was ready to put Money aside right there and then to help get this for us.
But you never made a move or anything on this matter.
And... It seemed to just drop.

Yes a part of this is my fault.
I can't save up money.
I get "Spend Happy" and spend about $200 on personal things that I want that could've waited.
And I am sorry on that.
I know I could've done better.
But it's hard for me.

And I know part of the reason I am not Happy anymore is cause of me.

And I tried to fix this issue.
Tried talking to you multiple times.
But you're always occupied on your computer.
Just like I am.
But you seemed more interested in your Internet friends then you are in me?

Remember that night when I came home?
It was last Month.
It Rained all day. I was soaked.
Cold. Ready to be in Tears.
I was in a bad stressed mood.
But you flat out told me you're friend had it worse.
And you ignored me the rest of the night more focused on her.
I went and posted a Vent Art that you never seemed to noticed.
Along with a Rant Journal that you never read.

Journal: http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/7959254/
Vent Art: http://www.furaffinity.net/view/21915631/

I get it that you were worried over your friend.
I be worried over mine too.
But I still try and make a effort to comfort and listen to you when you need it.

But sadly.

There is no Spark anymore.
I don't see you as a Boyfriend or Mate anymore.
Just a Close Friend with Murals if that makes since?
Or a Roommate.

I debated long and hard on this issue..
And I know I should've brought this up sooner.
But I didn't know how to go about it.
And I found it easier to type it down then talking it out.

That was always my biggest issue.
Is lack of Communication.
But I tried to talk to you a couple of times on this.
And you start out listening then immediately focus on your computer and tune me out.
You ignore me all the time now.

I had thrown out many hints on this issue.
But you never noticed or cared.

I mean we can talk about it after you read this.
But I am not changing my mind.
And I am sorry.

That Love and Happiness I once felt?
Is just Gone now.
I don't feel it anymore.
The two weeks you were gone.
I felt happy again.
I felt free.
And... It made me realize some things...

In the start.
I loved you.
I was Happy!
When we first meet.
I was over joyed.
We were all cuddling, romantic and couple like~
My parents saw us together.
They knew they were looking at their future Son-in-Law
But the more we got together.
The more of all the things we use to do stopped.
When people looked at us before they knew we were together and happy~
Now... When they see us together. They don't see us as a couple.
They saw us as friends.

Sam it's just gotten to the point that my parents are about to kick us out.
Well.. Maybe not "us". But still.
And I be honest.
I am moving out.
I am moving in with Tiff.
Cause... You know it's bad.
Tiff and Kevin moved down about the same as you.
They started out bout the same way we did.
Tiff works at a Goodwill like me. Gets the same pay.
Kevin.. I forgot where he worked. But got the same pay as you.
And they already got a Vehicle. A House. They got their shit together.
While we? We're still living with my parents.
Doing jack shit with our lives.

Sam I am no longer happy.
I don't see us going any further into our future.
And.. I just want out.
Be myself again. I feel like I have to change who I am around you and your family.
I want to be adventurous. Take risks!
Go to places without begging you to come with.

Have friends over again.
Or be with Friends again.
Without being held back and feeling bad that I am leaving you alone.

And.. Just go back to the way it was.
I love you Sam.
But I love you as a Friend.
Not a Boyfriend or Mate.
I know I still hugged and kissed you and said I love you before what I am about to say.
But that was cause I was still trying to figure things out.
Trying to feel that spark again.
But sadly it's just gone.

So with that I am calling it off and Breaking up with you.

Sorry...

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I had a feeling this was inevitable. I had thought about it myself that I may have to split up with her, that I would be the one to end it, but I didn't expect her to beat me to it.

I'm moreso worried about what will happen now that we've broken up... Will I or should I keep my job as a custodian at the high school that's only a block away from where I'm currently staying? Or should I move back to NJ with my family? I'll admit, I'm scared... I've never lived on my own before... Moving back in with my family may be the most comfortable option, but part of the reason I chose to move in with Crystal is because I wanted to be away from my family so I could journey out there and try to become my own adult. But I feel as though I still haven't grown...

I just don't know what to do...
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Re: The "this shit pisses me off" thread
Reply #62 - 01/14/17 at 13:03:28
 
It boils down to that if you really care about each other, you should be able to talk about anything, and also be able to resolve your differences.

That's something I said to you in a previous reply. Unfortunately, your seeing just how true that really is.

I'm sorry that your life has taken a bad turn in that regard. I can only say to you that I hope you can come out better from it, and take some lessons learned. I would advise you to stay your own man because if you go back "home" to NJ, you will more than likely regret that.

I hate to say it but, your going to have to try your best to tough it out, and get back on your feet. Easy for me to say but, I honestly don't know what else to tell you dude.

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Reply #63 - 01/15/17 at 12:27:19
 
Methid I usually don't make post showing my empathy, but in this case I am really sorry man, from the deepest part of my heart I am. I've been through this three times now and I wish I could say it gets easier, but that would be a lie.

Take time for yourself. Heal. Find out what you want and fuck everything else. I wish no one would have to feel that heat ache and pain, but unfortunately that's part of life. You ever need someone to talk to or just a shoulder, PM me I'll give you my contact info.

Worst part of any pain is feeling like your alone in the whole matter.
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Reply #64 - 01/25/17 at 16:20:31
 
Shit that has been pissing me off as of late is how much people spoil their fucking kids. For example, it seems I cannot go to any kind of store without some little brat bitching, moaning, and sometimes even hitting and cursing at their parents because they want something.

Now, if I was a kid and I pulled this shit, my parents wouldn't think twice about beating my ass in front of everyone in the store. But most parents today, Not all, but most of them just cave in and give their little shit spawn what they want without disciplining them.

It's fucking annoying and all it is doing is crippling the next generation of adults, and we wonder why everyone wants to be treated fair and get what they want these days.
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Reply #65 - 02/05/17 at 03:29:15
 
Pisses me off how little traffic this forum gets, even the TM reedit is fucking silent and doesnt have too much subs... this place is like that bar where you see the old same farts all the time.

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Reply #66 - 02/05/17 at 14:33:16
 
Old Farts?!?!

Why......I remember back in the day I had to drive uphill BOTH WAYS with my machine gun out the window because I couldn't mount one on my hood. You have any idea how hard it is chucking grenades with one hand on the wheel while evading MISSILES SONNY?!?!?

You little whipper snappers have no idea what it's like to take a gas can to the windshield and be able to walk away.

I'd bet my underwear you'd crap yours. Like I just did! Old farts........the nerve....   
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Reply #67 - 02/06/17 at 11:11:51
 
Can't help what we are.
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Reply #68 - 02/12/17 at 17:53:52
 
Hair loss.


And the overall deterioration that comes with aging. Not only physically but also psychologically. Hell, I don't even feel like poking fun at Magnum over how old he is, anymore. I used to do that a decade ago when I was not even in my 20s. He was in his late 30s, then. Feels as though I'll be where he was in no time.
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Reply #69 - 02/13/17 at 10:33:39
 
You can still poke fun.

You'll just be here too eventually!  Grin
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Reply #70 - 02/14/17 at 12:06:36
 
When people join forums to post once and blow away like a fart in the wind.
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Reply #71 - 03/08/17 at 23:25:47
 
My grandma, i hope she fucking dies.

She's nothing but a terrible person and a fucking leech, can't wait til she gets excised from this earth...
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