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Re: The "this shit pisses me off" thread
Reply #45 - 09/03/16 at 14:00:48
 
I'm offended that your offended, by being offended.

That offence offers an offensive tone, and should be dealt with offensively.

So you'd better not get offensive with me or I'll be offended.

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Reply #46 - 09/04/16 at 11:53:33
 
I'm offended that your offended, by being offended.

I've used this line before..Are you staking me?
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Reply #47 - 09/04/16 at 14:50:16
 
I couldn't possibly be stalking you. That's offensive.

Stop touching yourself there.
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Reply #48 - 09/04/16 at 16:07:05
 
I was gonna say if your fucking stalking me you might as well add me, but your magnum.


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Reply #49 - 09/08/16 at 01:14:29
 
-People who try to humiliate others for their own entertainment, especially when it's done by a group.

-People on 4chan who try to derail threads.
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Reply #50 - 10/03/16 at 09:22:59
 
One of my girlfriend’s cats stinks…

It’s all because of her tooth infection. An infection that just won’t go away and she’s supposedly too old to be anesthetized for a tooth extraction. See, her tooth infection causes stinky bacteria in her mouth, and whenever she licks herself, she brings all that bacteria-laden saliva to her fur. Even if we gave her a bath, she’ll just end up stinking again as long as she keeps licking herself.

What makes this worse is that she’s been veeery clingy and cuddly lately. I know that behavior is a sign of her tooth aching, and I really want to cuddle up with her especially if it would help her deal with the pain, but…she stinks… Even when she’s not licking herself, she still stinks up wherever she sleeps because she tends to drool a lot while she’s relaxed. I’m sure as hell not gonna let her sleep and drool on me while I’m asleep so we keep her out of the bedroom and keeping the door closed, but because of her clinginess, she meows and claws at the bedroom door trying desperately to force her way in, which makes it hard for me and my girlfriend to sleep.

I really don’t know what to do about it. I mean, we’ve taken her to the vet before and they prescribe antibiotics and stuff, but no matter how strictly we follow it, the infection just keeps coming back. Looks like our best bet is to give her a good bath and freshen her breath every day (thankfully she’s one of those cats who don’t mind water). Or…put her down… Like I said she’s an old cat and if she’s going through pain, it may very well be an act of mercy…but it’s not my decision to make…
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Reply #51 - 10/06/16 at 06:30:43
 
Try a baby shirt. It might help with her licking herself and causing herself to stink.  The shirt will prevent her from licking herself kinda like a cone so it might help.
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Reply #52 - 10/08/16 at 04:28:37
 
Seems like it wouldn't be too hard to convince a vet to at least try and go ahead with the anesthesia regardless in this situation because either the cat survives and the problem is solved, or it actually can't handle going under and just passes away peacefully all the same. I'm a cat person myself so I understand how difficult this must be as I can't imagine trying to reject my cat as he chills and sleeps with me every night, but allowing the problem to continue doesn't seem like its good for anyone involved.
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Re: The "this shit pisses me off" thread
Reply #53 - 11/03/16 at 07:03:38
 
If it were up to me, I'd go and take her to the vet myself and ask them to give it a try and risk it, but again, she's not my cat so I can't make that choice.


XIZOR wrote on 10/08/16 at 04:28:37:
but allowing the problem to continue doesn't seem like its good for anyone involved.

It's certainly not...and that's actually another vent for this thread right there, one that I need to stop being silent about: I've come to realize there's some problems I feel I'm forced to deal with that could be solved but aren't because my girlfriend is too reluctant to deal with them for a variety of reasons. There's the aforementioned cat problem and that's because she keeps saying "Well the vets tell me she's too old to be put under, it could kill her, blah blah blah".

Then there's the issue of me having to deal with pet accidents occuring fairly often that I try to clean up and am getting sick and tired of doing every so often. I can understand if it happens once in a while, but this is something I have to deal with at least a few times a week. When it happens that often, we need a long-term solution but we can never agree on one: she doesn't like the idea of using doggy diapers or keeping them caged all day while we're at work. Look, I'm tired of dealing with this shit, okay? You may be too lazy to clean up pet messes, but I personally find it unacceptable to live in a house that has turds and pee puddles here and there. Are you seriously just gonna let it happen?

...Now if only I could communicate how I feel to her effectively and tactfully...
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Re: The "this shit pisses me off" thread
Reply #54 - 11/03/16 at 13:24:08
 
Heh. You have the same issue I do. I got a cat that does the same stuff. It's not because it's old. It's because it's picky.

Since I don't do drama, that's where your mantra really needs to start. The one thing in a relationship that you need to grab a hold of is your balls a little bit and outright let her know how you feel. I know it's easy for me to say that but, I and many other men have had points in time with their relationships where there was something going wrong and it needed addressed.

Some things you can maybe let slide. Some things you just can't. You just have to know when to pick your battles. I'm telling you dude. If you continue to let it go without really making a point about letting her know it pisses you off, it's just going to ruin you both. If she can accept your POV if your calm about it and work it out civilly, awesome.

I will say this. Sometimes you have to be the big mad asshole and just let her fucking have it just to get your point across. Especially if she does that with you if she feels you do something and you've never answered back in the same tone.Will she get upset, mad, or cry? Probably. But if that's the only way to get it across because she casually blows it off, it will make her take notice.   

There has been a few times where I've had to put the wife in her place about something that makes me mad and honestly, we've come out better and stronger for it. There have been a few times she's done it to me too. That's the thing. A couple are 2 different people that have to learn how to live with each others differences. It's not going to be perfect all the time, and if you never argue, there is something seriously wrong because your not communicating.

So if my 22 going on 23 years of being with the same woman can't give you some insight, I'd say your screwed. I will also point out that I am a very lucky guy without a doubt to have the wife I do. So I guess it's not exactly fair either?      
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Reply #55 - 11/04/16 at 07:41:13
 
Now I realize why I have the "Hopeless Romantic" belt... >.>
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Reply #56 - 11/04/16 at 14:10:54
 
Ya know, there is nothing wrong with being a nice guy or being nice and shit. Of course you'll hear that always being an asshole is wrong. That's the perception I'm getting from you.

There is something wrong with getting walked on if your nice though. (aka pussy-whipped) There is also something wrong with getting away with being an asshole all the time. But......there is nothing wrong with being either one if it's something you have to address.

Your not telling me anything that I haven't gone through, or haven't heard other men go through. Your married. This shit happens. It's how you both handle it is what determines if you work it out or fuck it up.

I boils down to that if you really care about each other, you should be able to talk about anything, and also be able to resolve your differences without needing to get to angry about it. I can assure you you probably do shit that pisses her off and she hasn't said anything yet.

Ohhhhhh you watch.......
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Reply #57 - 11/04/16 at 14:49:51
 
I agree with mags on this one. A couple should be able to sit down and communicate within out a huge issues, but sometimes feelings do get hurt and there is no way to avoid that unfortunately.

Just try and be respectful about it and don't start a conversation with "Listen here you stupid bitch."
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Reply #58 - 11/05/16 at 20:21:23
 
You have to bring this up. Lack of transparency festers into hatred.

It's okay to bring it up, then ultimately take her way with things. But she needs to know it upsets you. Also you need to stand your ground once in awhile and say no.

If you and her ignore the stuff that bothers you. Every instance will build up in the back of your minds. Which after a few years can result in outright hatred. Better to have an argument now than a total meltdown later.

I'm not saying a relationship with a lack of transparency can't work. But even if it does. I think it's inviting a lot of misery that doesn't need to be experienced.

Also don't humanize your cat. I know you both love it and it loves you. But it's emotions are much more simple. It's not torturing the thing to not let it sleep in the bedroom. The final years of a pet are often not spent being cuddled like a kitten or pup.

Do the best you can to make it's final moments happy. But don't torture yourself with cat stink over the next year or two out of pity.

It's okay to be selfish once in awhile. You aren't a bad person for it. Those who would guilt you over it however might be bad people. At least if they cannot be reasoned with.

A lack of transparency will keep you pinned down by those who are happy to exploit your meekness. Don't let your kindness turn you into a tool. Be open and let your good nature be free and honest.
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Reply #59 - 11/06/16 at 19:51:03
 
I know I'm gonna eventually have to bring it up with her... Even my counselor is suggesting it. The main thing I'm afraid of, though, is not her being upset with me; I'm more afraid that even when I let her know it bothers or depresses me, she just won't care.

The pet thing is actually the lesser problem in our relationship. What I'm really depressed about is the lack of intimacy.

You see, early on in the relationship, she was a lot more...horny. She's always been one of those "celibate until marriage" types, but at least in the early days of our relationship she was still into lewd stuff so I didn't mind that too much. She would draw some adult art, she used to fave adult art in the art site we frequent, we used to do erotic roleplaying over Skype, she would even tell me about shaving herself down there even though she didn't like it. She was sexually shy even then, but she still had some way of keeping my interest.

Then...about halfway through our relationship, like 2-3 years into it, she eventually stopped doing lewd stuff... She eventually stopped doing ERP's with me, she stopped drawing and faving adult art, she no longer cared about doing things to lightly entice me... She does show me her boobs now at least, but she seems uncomfortable with me letting her squeeze them, yet she has no problem squeezing her female friends' boobs. I did bring this up, but all she would say was "I'm just not used to it".

The last bit of evidence of lust on her part was when she vented to me about getting a vibrator that was advertised to be waterproof but broke when it got submerged. That was sometime last year I believe, but I hadn't been living with her yet then (I started living with her since February of this year).

She's become more than just celibate, her sex drive just seems all but gone now...and it depresses me to think that probably nothing will bring it back...

Again, what worries me about bringing it up with her is not that it might upset her but rather that she'll just remain indifferent even if she understands my concerns. I worry that she won't be willing to try to make adjustments to better the relationship and that breaking up is the only option I'll have. And as dissatisfied as I am with the relationship, I'm very reluctant to do that because I've already established myself here in South Carolina: I'm living in her house, I have a job at the local high school a block away (thus making me lucky I don't have to drive to work), and I've made a few friends here, more than I ever have in my entire time living in NJ.

If I break up with her, it's back to living with my parents in NJ and having to deal with their shit all over again whether it's constant labor projects1 or having them play matchmaker for me2.

It seems no matter what I choose to do with my life, I'm guaranteed to be unhappy either way. There's some sadder details but I'd rather not say them publically here, you'll have to PM me. I've never had much luck with life and I've considered suicide to be my only escape from misery, but I don't know whether living or dying is worse. So I just default to living since I can't bring myself back from the dead and because I'm too chicken to do anything seriously fatal to myself.

I do want to try to see if I can save the relationship first; I do hope that it might emerge to be a stronger one. But I'm losing confidence in that the more time goes by. If terminating the relationship is the only thing I can do, then I don't know what to do about that because then I'd just be stuck with my parents trying to take matters into their own hands with their misguided attempts to try to bring me happiness.

1(even now my dad is still toiling away in Scranton that's not even getting us anywhere, and my family is also remodeling our backyard deck, which is more of the same kind of thing my family does just about every other year to improve our property while also bringing lots of stress since I'm always forced to lend a hand even though I'm tired of doing construction work)

2(despite the fact they don't know what I really want in a girl and keep trying to hook me up with girls that they think will make me happy)

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