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04/12/09 at 05:20:02
 
So some random girl called me last week...apperently I work with her mom. Shit the only reason I even answered the phone was because I figured I'd have the courtesy to tell them they didn't have the right number.... I was pretty shocked to find out that she knew my name. it was a typical blah blah blah get to know each other conversation... I actually got along with her really well which shocked me more than the random call did. Of course it's hard to say for sure if she was just telling me what I wanted to hear ya know lol... Regardless by the end of the talk I'll admit I was leaning towards interested and agreed to meet her at a coffee shop.

She called again a couple hours later and was already talking about sex. Which would have been great when I was twenty and she didn't have a kid at fifteen. That conversation was alot different than the first one. That convo in particular left me with the impression that she already had a whole relationship built up in her head before we had even met in person....I've seen her once ...she's not unattractive..but not ideal either which is fine.... but we've never spoke ...so the whole thing was really weird and slightly desperate and/or impulsive...I'm not sure which to be honest....

The whole kid thing of course worries me I'm not exactly the type of person who handles that type of responsibility well....Kids like me and all ...however I'm more than ill equipped to take on any sort of father figure role for a kid that I have no attachment to beyond wanting to maintain a relationship with his mother....That's not fair to her or him...

This call was last weekend....and we were supposed to meet today...I showed ...on time even! shocking lol.... She did'nt ...HaHaHa I've never been so happy to get stood up... I must've done sumpin right in another life...cause that shit was drama and awkwardness just waiting to happen... Fuck I'm about to move out and do my own thing ya know...that shit is way too complicated for me right now.

Close call I suppose...hope she doesn't call me...I know I'm not going too. Lips Sealed
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Re: Happy to Get Stood up...
Reply #1 - 04/12/09 at 10:17:19
 
if she had a kid at 15, and she was already talking sex with you by the second phone call, I'd say she was more lookin for some easy dick than a relationship.. or she was trying really hard to make you like her. but the fact that she didnt show tells me it was the first one..

if you're glad she didnt show and you hope she doesnt call you back, then why did you go to begin with? I'd have just stayed home and played video games Smiley
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Reply #2 - 04/12/09 at 14:53:52
 
That's good man. Saves you the trouble from possibly condemning yourself to something you don't want. I would have been out of there the second she mentioned sex early. I wouldn't want to be with someone that's out for a good time which would also raise a lot of trust issues.
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Reply #3 - 04/12/09 at 16:09:20
 
I agree it's probably best nothing came out of it.

She sounded like she might be a nut anyway.
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Reply #4 - 04/12/09 at 16:52:21
 
Sounds like you dodged a nuclear warhead of disaster just waiting to happen. I hate those chicks who get knocked up at an early age and try to date later on in life. You can't help but to think that all they're after is someone to look after there kid.

I refuse to associate with any single chick who has a kid. Even on the most basic level  Cool
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Reply #5 - 04/12/09 at 21:25:33
 
Well, I cant say much because my girlfriend has children. She is a few years older than me, and Im fine with that, so I can understand your concerns in that reguard. I was very hesitant to invest in anything other than sex with my current girlfriend but it has turned out to be for the best that I did honestly.

Her children arent so small that they need constant watching and care and given our current situation (we dont live together YAY) they never really put any kind of strain on our relationship. I suck with kids so Im glad they arent younger, but her son plays games, so were good there, and her daughter will be moving out soon, which is both good and bad cause shes kinda cute and I was really hoping for some mother/daughter action...just kidding of course....not really....seriously I wouldnt do that....unless they wanted to...but it is wrong....and that makes it hot.

I said Id never be with a chick that already has kids but that kinda changed and I dont think anyone should ever base a relationship on that alone. I know its probably not the most appealing in a lot of ways but if the chick is awesome and good-looking and you two really get along then at least give it a shot. I know this isnt really the case here but Im just throwing shit out there.
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Reply #6 - 04/12/09 at 23:42:18
 
I pretty much agree with everyone here.... I'm glad I'm not the only one who thought it sounded like a good thing she didn't show.... I probably shoud've been a no show as Pure suggested ...but I said I would be there. So I went. The fact that she was the one who initiated this whole thing and didn't even bother to show up...let alone send some kind of excuse appology...no word at all... So that doesn't say much for her sense of morals or ability to do the right thing no matter the situation.

At my age I'm not completely opposed to getting with someone who has children. I'd be a fool not to be willing to comprimise on this subject. I wouldn't be pleased about it of course but I could learn if it was worth it. The one thing I'm very predisposed to is dating young girls. I require reasonably intelligent conversation in a both my friendships and relationships.... And in that category most girls that are still in their teens are incredibly lacking in that department... not all of course but the majority assuredly.

However I don't intend on waiting my entire life for the ideal chick to come along either. That's equally foolhardy. Granted I haven't honestly looked in a very long time the urge to meet new people seems to be returning though...When I get my own place soonish...I'll most likely start keeping a closer eye on my intentions when I play the field. A relationship based purely on sex is simply unacceptable to me at this point in my life...
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Reply #7 - 04/13/09 at 00:57:37
 
Is she hot?
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Reply #8 - 04/13/09 at 06:46:16
 
LOL!! the million dollar question..

this particular situation is obviously bust, but at least you're keeping an open mind and arent trying to waste your time in meaningless relationships..

me tho, I'm more like Kyle in the fact that I have a rule about not dating chicks with kids. regardless of the circumstances, there's bound to be baby mama drama and the fact that the dad will more than likely be lurking around. altho, the lil country girl that came and bought my couches the other day had a 2 month old from a deadbeat ex-bf.. but I'd be lying if I said I hadnt contemplated giving her a shot.. if I was available, that is. I'd definitely knock the bottom off it tho.. she looked like she could fuck a mormon into monogomy..
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The Dizaster Child wrote on 04/13/09 at 06:46:16:
LOL!! the million dollar question..

this particular situation is obviously bust, but at least you're keeping an open mind and arent trying to waste your time in meaningless relationships..

me tho, I'm more like Kyle in the fact that I have a rule about not dating chicks with kids. regardless of the circumstances, there's bound to be baby mama drama and the fact that the dad will more than likely be lurking around. altho, the lil country girl that came and bought my couches the other day had a 2 month old from a deadbeat ex-bf.. but I'd be lying if I said I hadnt contemplated giving her a shot.. if I was available, that is. I'd definitely knock the bottom off it tho.. she looked like she could fuck a mormon into monogomy..



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Reply #10 - 04/14/09 at 06:52:23
 
no fucking kidding man, she had an ass you could set a cup on.. and a huge set up top too, but I like freakishly big tits anyway, and she wore a damn speghetti-strap shit to top it off. she knew she was gonna be bending over in front of me to help carry the couch, and she chose to wear that?? something told me she did it on purpose.. and it was rockin. and the weird part.. she wasnt even big. most chicks with t 'n' a like her got some thick to them, but she was shaped like a perfect hourglass..
but I couldnt imagine her talking dirty with that hick accent.. I'd end up laughing at her and killing it
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Reply #11 - 04/14/09 at 18:04:46
 
Well Ty if it helps I got stood up last night via internet date  Cool I'm attempting this whole "internet dating" thing at the moment. Its ... interesting. I had this girl contact me and say that she wanted to chat with me sometime. We agreed to meet Monday night at 9:00 to talk and get to know each other.

Yea. She totally didn't show up. Which honestly wasn't that big of a deal... I chose that specific time because that's when I'm usually on the PC anyway. So it wasn't really a waste of my time. But it does beg the question ... why did she bother contacting me and then not show up? Same as you. It doesn't make since. If I wanted to not talk to women... I'd go to a bar!  Cool
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Reply #12 - 04/14/09 at 19:40:09
 
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Reply #13 - 04/15/09 at 08:07:27
 
time for a Seagull, Iowa-style... I dunno what means, but you'll figure it out
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Reply #14 - 04/19/09 at 04:49:07
 
Given that history of early sex ("productive" sex, at that) and her lust for you without knowing you, I wouldn't ignore the possibility that she's got some STD she's capable of passing on as well. Wink
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